Diagnosed: 2021 In remission since: 2022-11-25
I was diagnosed with colon cancer in November 2021. What followed was a nightmare that neither I nor my family could have imagined. I underwent four major surgeries, suffered three septic shocks, spent 40 days in the ICU and endured several rounds of chemo and radiation. My entire large intestine had to be removed and left with a permanent stoma. There were times when survival was uncertain. It was an incredibly difficult period, not only for me but also for my wife Madhavi, our children Ankita and Aniket, and our friends.
What kept me going was the support of my family, my writing and storytelling, and my belief in 'Managing Every Tumour With Humour'. I was declared cancer-free. Life, however, has not returned to what it was before. I continue to live with an ostomy bag, an insulin pump, and various health challenges. But I didn't let any of that stop me from doing what I love: conducting workshops, delivering motivational talks, and taking the stage several times a week.
On 3 October, I was crowned 'India Cancer Warrior'. For someone whose dream was to walk the ramp, winning that title was a dream come true. What I enjoy most is sharing my story to connect with people and celebrate life.
Lessons cancer taught me: Never take life for granted. Before cancer, I was an active person, busy with corporate life and public speaking. Suddenly, I found myself completely dependent on others for even the simplest tasks. It made me realize how vulnerable we human beings are, and it helped me discover a reserve of inner strength I never knew existed. Living with an ostomy became a reality, and adapting to it meant life was no longer lived the way I once did. But there is still so much to look forward to and achieve.
The physical consequences remain, but I face each day with courage and a smile.
Advice to other cancer patients: To anyone battling cancer or going through a crisis, here are my suggestions: 1. Don't lose your sense of humor. When things go wrong, laughter can be the best medicine. A sense of humor helps you see beyond the pain and gives you hope. 2. Pursue your passion: music, painting, gardening, cooking, writing. It will keep your mind occupied and productive, and help prevent anxious thoughts from taking over your headspace. 3. Build meaningful relationships: nurture bonds with family and friends. Open your heart to loved ones. Every moment is precious, a gift to be cherished. 4. Be optimistic: attitude is everything. Positivity creates an ecosystem of hope, strength and healing.